Why do Chinese people like to do in public "private matter"

Why do Chinese people like to do in public "private matter"
Author [Sweden] Jonna Wibelius translator Guo Aiting Source:
China Youth Net Jian Zhijia A few days ago, I saw a subway in Shanghai, Ms. Jian Zhijia, although not too many nails in the car flying debris, spattered and no other people on the floor and fell, but the kind of situation is really Sicken people. I am a little surprised: Why are there so many people in public places, Jian Zhijia to do this kind of "private matter"? In addition, I have Zhijia Dao they carry around all day, and decided to Shanghai as such a crowded subway, for it to come up with a nail, "Beauty" was very confusing. In the end this is it for? Why not, or only your own toilet, do this happen? Jian Zhijia in the subway, this kind of thing, both men and women I have ever seen. I have to say that although China has not happened anywhere spitting is so unacceptable, in the past few days, the woman in the car Jian Zhijia thing, I was like in addition to, not other people uneasy. I guess this has been a turn a blind eye to. Even though I have in the past two and a half years to see this happen often, I still feel that we can not adapt to this "special" used to ... ... If a stranger in the subway, the nail of a sudden flying to me, I estimate that there will be Kind of feeling violated. Doze off Jian Zhijia in public so disgusted with me, and doze off in public while I was surprised. If anything I was impressed, is the Chinese people can fall asleep anywhere, anytime. I am kind of leaving their safe, comfortable bed to sleep on the hard type, such as aircraft, buses, sleeping on the train will not occur in my body. I have earlier morning train ride to Shanghai, then it is a "fun" of course. You can it be divided into 3 phases of view: The first phase: on the train. People pushing each other forward to throw into confusion, toward each other at the first seat, sitting in the wrong position of those who were asked to leave. All in all a mess, but this is still the norm. People have to do a huge suitcase on the luggage rack above the seats and the cup filled with hot water. That's a very exciting and relaxing scene - the women's big voice, the men's laughter of children still screaming ... ... all mixed in the car. The second phase: (5 minutes after the train running): The car is in the doldrums, "deafening" sound of snoring soon. The third stage: (arrived in Shanghai the first two minutes): It seems to have been set up all of a sudden loud noise of the alarm clock rang as if everyone suddenly woke up in the moment, and then a scramble. They all rushed to pick up something to put on a bag, clothes. When the train stops, has been in the car at the entrance of the lines. Now I have been very accustomed to such scenes, to see that it would not be a reaction. Although I remember the first time to see such a "grand occasion", fell asleep and the Chinese people "siege" of how often surprised. It was in 2005, I was invited to participate in the overseas Chinese associations in Europe organized by the annual meeting. At that meeting, from Finland to Sweden to be held on a yacht for a period of two days. I was sailing in 3 Europeans in a meeting of all are carried out according to the Chinese habit, including talking and doing. At the time, I almost do not know yet, "How are you," What does it mean that Chinese culture is a little more, so the meeting means nothing to me. In a meeting of the two-hour-long speech, I was around to see hundreds of Chinese business sector are sleeping! It really shocked me! That there are at a presentation ceremony. At that time, the spokesman called a name, and then I saw a man immediately got up, took a prize with pleasure, after smiling and shaking hands with the spokesman, in a group photo taken before the camera. You know, he was summoned in the two seconds before, also looks totally at a depth of sleep! You can imagine how surprised I am! He simply can not see it like to sleep a little tolerance, but more like a dynamic all day like! In the same situation again at the end of the meeting. A spokesman for his closing speech to tell you (as expressed appreciation like to speak), everyone got up immediately, the applause, smiled and congratulated each other. "Is how they do it?!" I secretly thought to myself, and I thought of when it was nap in the wake of the kind of confusion. Whenever that time, I feel some confusion: a blank mind, I would like to know where they are, a few points I should have been awakened to the matter who made Biao. Chinese people wake up "natural, elegant" way, I am very impressed by ... ... so far. In fact, I know they do not sleep deeply. Many Chinese people have been explained to me, it is only the "nap" only, with the night's sleep is not the same thing, it is more like a fast way to rest. They can still be snoring, and dream of doing ... look ... In fact, the "impressive" and the word accurate enough to express them at any time I can sleep habits of the true feeling, I think, that feeling may be closer to: "jealous."